Fake Boyfriends

So whats the new trend with girls having fake boyfriends back home.Seen this vid and was crackin up...

I Have a Man excuse

In Laws

Movies always have jokes about how awful In-Laws are  
But than again what causes this? 

If you meet the parents early in the relationship and have a healthy relationship from than personally i think there shouldn't be a problem. 

In my immediate family, the only person that officially met the parents was my nieces father when my sister came home from her first semester in college; pregnant. 

In my life so far, my parents haven't met ANY of my boyfriends ever. 

Last night i realized I wanted to change this. After spending the night at my boyfriends house and seeing his relationship with his mother and how welcoming she was to me I realized a few things. 

1. My family dynamics are a fucking messs

2. He treats me so good, because him and his mother have a good relationship

3. How can I make my parents as warm and welcoming as his mother

All in all, I was jealous.

I know me and my parents will not have a good relationship over night, or ever, or don't think its in their nature.

But my hope is that when it comes time for my boyfriend to meet my parents, will I be able to and will they be ready?

Union Square

Just got back from 14th street - Union Square aka my home in the summer time.

I went to apply to Jamba Juice and picked up job applications to other places.
I'm extra determined to find a job for this summer before I even finish my first semester.
I'm at a point in my life where I want the title of independent, but in order to play the part I need to act accordingly.
My parents and I have come to a mutual respect for the first time in my life, they even speak to me as if Im a person not someone they brought into the world and can easily eliminate. It's nice.
What do you guys have planned for the summer?

LUPE & shows

LUPE streaming live from his webster hall concert on  http://www.lupefiasco.com/ !
Yea imma big fan, since 9th grade.
I was just at my neighbors house and we ended up watching this show called Being Human.
I honestly don't watch alot of tv but this is a really good show so far.

Thoughts

Im curious what you guys think about my stuff.
When you read somethin leave a comment and lemme know what you think :)

Relationships

Relationships have always been a love hate relationship for me. I've had the worst of the worst and current in the best of my best. Once upon a time i said i was done though, heres a lil somethin from that time.

If I cry
Know it wasn’t for you
But the lost nights I spent up
Wondering if I made a mistake
If you see me upset
Do not flatter yourself
I do not let pettiness get to my head
I’ve been overwhelmed with emotions
My pride won’t allow me to share
Its not that Im not capable of caring
My heart just needed to breath
She’s been running way to long
Way to hard
And way to far
There has to be a resting point
Where she won’t have to be questioned
She doesn’t have to worry about your intentions
Of sabotaging her mission
She’s fought through quite some journeys
Yet the battle is far from over
There’s an arrow in her side
That hasn’t come loose as yet
So she must run
Not in fear
But in search
Her citizenship is not of this world
Her soul is of the past
With a destination of the future
Not accepting limits
And settling for nothing less than the best
She will not be locked down
But until she finds a partner
And the shoes fit
If he promises not to quit
When he feels a little resistance
Learning not to fight isn’t easy
When you’ve been trained to be on guard
With no promises of how
Or even when the little girl
Will be allowed to go home

SPRING BREAK

i have a math test at two than im off for Spring Break
as you may know Im from Brooklyn I will be spending my SB in Brooklyn, hanging out in Manhattan looking for bakeries, in Philly with my BF for a day and him and I are thinking about going to DC.
Stay tuned for pics, be safe, dont have sex with any random hot tanned people.  :D

Sometimes The Question Is Simple

Sitting in my African Lit class I kinda dazed out and wrote this. 

The boy next to me in class read it and smiled looking at me with this confused look on his face I yet to understand. 

Enjoy, hope you understand.

Sometimes the Question Is Simple

Will it hurt

If  you drop me

Will I cry

If you dare

Should I challenge

Your intentions

Should I be certain

That you care

I trust you

With my heart

But tell me boy

Am I being smart

Be honest with me

Even if I hurts

I need to know

If I should prepared to be hurt

Have a Happy Period

Why do these commercials about easing menstrual cramps always make it seem like having a period can be as easy as unwrapping candy? In my almost 11 years of having my period I've NEVER had a happy period. EVER. Im currently awake at 4:07 am and its safe to say im in an irritated at life mood.
My boyfriend is officially tired as is going to bed, so now im irked at him.
Someone should make a book of ways to eliminate PMS cuz i'd buy it.